5 ways to know yourself -it’s more important than everything that you’re doing right now.

Kanza Khalid
3 min readJun 14, 2022

Let’s understand your archetype

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Knowing yourself on a deeper level is as crucial as doing your daily workout. Yes, some of us skip our workout sessions and we aren’t even guilty about it. But we all know that skipping it, is affecting our body.

In the same way, when we don’t understand ourselves. We think we are ok. But we’re missing out on a lot of good things.

By knowing which kind of food you like, what is your favorite color? Which place you would want to visit next? All these are surface-level things. Of course, knowing all these things are important to an extent.

BUT, there is so much more to it.

Passion vs responsibility

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Let’s say today you feel like you’re living your dream life. You’re earning good money and everything is going well.

Ask yourself what if you have enough money in your bank account. You are autonomous. You don’t have to do a job or anything to take care of yourself.

Would you still happily do what you’re doing right now? If your answer is No!! So, the current job is your responsibility.

Then, question yourself what is that one thing that you can do for free. It can be anything. Don’t judge yourself on it. This World is a big place to handle all your passions. It has a place for everyone.

Past events

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Understand your past events. There is nothing wrong with checking your mental state about the things that happened to you in the past.

We all have underlying problems. But you’ll not get anything out by covering them, ignoring them. You cannot solve an issue by ignoring it. It’s not possible.

Attend your past emotions — try to resolve them. Support yourself. Don’t get into a fight with yourself. We often blame ourselves for not speaking up at the right time. It’s not gonna make things better for you.

The only thing that can help you with this is your choice of healing.

You can do it yourself!! Great

You need help. Going to therapy is never a bad idea.

Analyze your present

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Know that wherever you’re right now. It is your choice and your responsibility. You cannot blame any person for any situation for it.

You cannot do it

When you know you’re the ONE. You got your answer. This realization is the most valuable thing for you in life.

It helps you start your journey of self-worth.

Keep peddling up

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At this stage, After knowing your past and present. It’s time to talk about your future.

When you know where you are right now it’s easy to recognize where you want to go from here.

Keep peddling up. Every day is a new day.

Every day you’ll find something new and challenging. You can do it all. You have the power inside of you to deal with all. Go ahead!!!

📌📌Add your favorite step or a line in the comment section below.

WOULD LOVE TO HEAR FROM YOUR SIDE!!!!

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